A lot of singles are not good at dating or judging how the relationship is going. Well, dating is kind of an art. There are things you can do to keep a relationship going and also things that will extinguish the flame.
There are what we call serial daters. They are people that like to date multiple people and never really bond with a singular person. They are quite content keeping a relationship casual.
The problem with a serial dater is that they don't always discuss this with their partner. Some of them feel that it is okay to keep their date in the dark and have others on the side.
There are always signs that are apparent very soon after meeting someone. For females, it is easy to spot. Men will not be home when you call at night. They might have an excuse like, "Oh, I turned my cell phone off" or "I was so tired that I didn't hear the phone ring".
Men will normally call a female often at the beginning and then the frequency slows. Or they might call on their way home and almost never when they are at home. This is a red flag that maybe they have a "regular".
They also don't seem too interested in introducing you to their kids or friends. That is a sign that they may not be looking for a long term relationship.
Female serial daters are normally not overly demonstrative from the beginning. They might flirt and seem interested but the lack of sincerity shows quickly. They are more interested in getting a free nice dinner out or some expensive gifts.
If a female is not interested in just spending time getting to know someone by also watching a dvd at home, that is a signal that she is not looking for just love.
Dating is very confusing but more accessible with the growing popularity of free online dating sites!
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